it seems that
things have become so natural that we are accepting his 'flaws' and blaming ourselves
like when something happen
but actually it could be a minor issue or nothing at all in the first place
but he overdo things... exaggerate and make it very serious..
den like when its between me n him, mother will tink 'is it u do sth that upsets him'
and when its between he n parents, i will think 'is it parents do sth that upsets him'
and this might in turn cause unhappiness and misunderstanding between mother and i.
mother said that things might be different when he is more financially stable
i told her that sometimes my thoughts contradict
one side agrees on that, another side said that "why are you finding excuses for him, you are not certain how things will be like when that day comes, it might be like what u say or it might b worse. r u gonna keep 'suffering' and keep deceiving urself or give urself false hope, for sth tt u r uncertain of. Things shdn't be lidat in the first place."
its just his character, mother said.
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